Milestone: my retirement account is larger than my student loan! I have to wait a couple of weeks (until I get paid) for positive net worth, but that is a nice fun fact to tide me over. I’ve literally never had more in savings than in student loans, not since I was 18.
Meanwhile, I spent $12 on dry cleaning a coat last week, only to get it home and discover that there were little brown spots all over one shoulder (dry cleaning fluid, I assume.) The old me would have fumed, but probably thrown up my hands and just never gone back to that place. The new me gritted my teeth and went back to talk to them. They wanted to try to fix it and even though I knew they probably couldn’t, I let them. When I picked it up today (not fixed) I stared them down until they agreed to give me my money back, so that’s $12 back in my monthly “spending money” account. I suppose a more aggressive person would have insisted that they not only refund me, but give me something in damages, but…baby steps.
I just was not gonna lose that $12. Do you notice yourselves finding it intolerable to lose small amounts of money, the further you go into your financial journeys?